WOkt I1" 4 Editorial December 2004 FfNEE FOftUM Blf i r i P I: I, i s ;U EM 1 i I- g-, s ' Ki M Graphics Editor While taking a warm bath is great, there are lots of ways in which you can get some satisfaction, and a smile works wonders for stress relief. Here are some suggestions; take a step outside of your routine. Everyone needs a night out every once in a while. Bars, clubs, and parties aren't the only solutions. Nicholson's billiards is a cool place to unwind and play some pool, snooker, air hockey, or pinbalj. It's not even a block away from the college, so forget the score, and just have fun. If you're on a budget, they have ladies night on Mondays so the girls get an hour of pool free, and students always get a discount. It's a whole lot less expensive than going to a movie. Next time you rent a movie, go with a new genre, like classic horror or cult films if you're not already a fan. It will broaden your movie trivia skills and be a little easier on the budget, not to mention avoiding late charges. If you're really broke, there are tons of videos (not just educational ones either) at the public library and at some school libraries. iif ;i1f'r;"' V , $" n (.' -J Being ' Wary otiheiDangerslotF ree iSpeech i ,.v'-:j,vi.- ' -' I Kewn Lalonde . . . ' ; " I Features Editor I think I need to apologize. My own mother addressed me with a very stern tone last month as she finished reading the centerfold feature of November's Free Forum, in which I lamented the outcome of the November 2 US Federal Election, perhaps in a fashion a little overzealous for some of our readers. She even used my middle name. It took only half a second for me to realize what she was upset about... Those of you who regularly read our tiny, under-funded monthly publication may have noticed an unusual level of profanity in my feature last month, hastily titled "What the Hell Happened?" Yes, it's true; I have a dirty mouth. To you who were offended by my vulgar and inarticulate usage of certain verbs, I offer my most sincere apology (not as sincere as the guys from MSNBC though, check out page 1 1 for details). Really though. I'm very sorry. That said, I'm sure that many of you sympathize with me, and can understand the anger and zeal of this passionate young man, painfully disappointed by the voters of a country whose citizenship I've also inherited. Oh yeah, I was ticked alright. However, that doesn't give me the right to abuse the privilege of free Kim BonnelL. ..v speech that the Charter of Rights and Freedoms grants me. Just because 59 million people really can be that homophobic, militaristic and downright misguided, doesn't mean that I can use inappropriate language in a public forum like this. No, no matter my dissatisfaction, my word choice was tasteless. For this I truly do apologize. And so I'm glad to say that I've learned something this month. While I appreciate my right to express myself freely, I also understand that unmitigated free speech, without any form of censorship, can also be very dangerous. Sometimes, views that are expressed in a public forum can be hurtful, even hazardous, and let's be frank now: Calling a world leader a "moron" is not an effective way to open a dialogue with your global peers. Oh yeah, it's damn funny alright, but what does it achieve? Similarly, many individuals find that a physical act of dissent, like a pie throwing, can bring attention to an important issue that they advocate. Again, this is some pretty funny stuff (Premier Klein, you're the man, not). But when all is said and done, ask yourself if you've accomplished anything more than wasting a perfectly good banana cream pie. Free expression is a wonderful right that we should all take advantage of at every opportunity. So do it; it's your right. Vote, protest, write letters. Do whatever it takes to get your voice heard. That's what I do. But the next time I get really angry, the first words that'll pop into my head will be... "Kevin Eric Lalonde..." non-educational book that is in no way a requirement for anyjpf your classes? If you've got the'chrgt6fJ;Prince' great book stores, and ask a 'clefkrtoJefe ommend something. '$ Try going to a music store and tossing in a totally different type of CD than what you usually listen too. Get some variety and a change of pace; something' ouVof the norm stimulates the brainand'.'tehds to wake you up from the study-induced lethargy that engulfs so many of us. And you never know what wonderful new tunes you could fall in love with unless you try. They have CD's at the public library as well, so try out something new; nothing puts me in a good mood like some old time jazz. Build something. When is the last time you made something thai you didn't hand to a professor or' that wasn't edible? Working hard on something that is concrete, something that will be around and even be useful for a while, ajriajor change for most students unless you're'lucky enough to.be in the trades. The sense accomplishment when you've finished making something is very rewarding, and it is much different than-the feeling you get from completing an essay. Speaking of the library, why not work" in a Audit a class you haven't had time for, or -ij-:?--- -ii . ..vi.Jsli ,. , w ,..&vr' .; -,v:3V'' ?", were too intimidatedjto take in the pastes. Pick something' Interesting and maybe,alit& tie outside of your amfortfzone. If you! fifid you xah;i handle theTworload, take itftRe traditional, way as soontaslyou have the If & chance,;and if it's not your cup of tea, well ?ft then, "no damage has' beemdone "to your &0 GPA. Win-win situation. $?' " W ''"fill "-- fp Of courseTthe easiest way to lighten your Iff mood is to cIo;Something silly ""and com- pletely random J Be a big goo and; laugh pjf until your sides splitThis is best done with. .? a friend or two. There-are endless sources g of inspiration, so use your imagination!!' fflj So while you are doingtthese life improving things, make sure you 'include, a friend. Making someone else smile makes you smile, which causes the release of endorphins, which will work wonders 'on that little ball of stress "called an ulcer developing in your st6mach,ljy to do something deliberately nice or bold every day, and watch how your temperament can change. 4' j$X$Z ifCJt " 'Editor's note: the CNC library keeps an:i excellent archive of films, including many;' feature film selections from Cinema CAC mm V1